Say NO to Save Sanity
I’m starting to feel panic underlying everything I do.
It’s a tension in my body that starts in my shoulders and neck and moves up to clenching my jaw and squinting, holding my joints rigidly, bracing myself for something bad, holding my breath and grinding my teeth.
I’m having to remind myself to breath and relax.
I start getting bitchy, frustrated, rushed, anxious, short-tempered and irritable. I’m getting cranky. I feel more pain in my body.
I recognize this feeling from last year.
It happens when The Busy Monster gets hold of my life.
It happens when I say YES too many times to too many good things.
The only cure is to say NO to good things. Notice it took me only 8-9 months to move to an entirely new place for The Busy Monster to find me. You would think no knowing a single soul would insulate me for at least a year.
I do good things. But, I suck at them and don’t enjoy them if I do too many of them. I’ve got to cut back or I will lose it in a few short weeks at this rate.
I’m not exactly clear which yes it was that tipped me over the edge - and I’m not 100% sure which thing is going to have to go, but I do know this - I will respect that my body and my feelings are telling me and cut something out.
It won’t be exercise and it won’t be activities that feed my soul. Saying NO will have to wait till Monday though because, I have to throw a party this weekend for my daughter’s 7th Birthday.
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16 opinions for Say NO to Save Sanity
chris swanson
Oct 10, 2008 at 10:15 am
I get the same way when I try to do too much. I really don’t know how those supermoms (you know who I am talking about) do it! I think breathing and cutting back helps and so does uping my blood pressure pills and chocolate.
Have a great weekend and a great 7th birthday party for your daughter.
My guess for the prize is a foot massager (thats what I need).
Huguette E.
Oct 10, 2008 at 10:20 am
Sounds like my husband, he can never say no and is always working and doing things for someone. Good luck with the party and practice saying no :)
Carrie
Oct 10, 2008 at 10:33 am
I know just how you feel. There is never an end to the to-do list ! My guess is an organizer?
Bebemiqui
Oct 10, 2008 at 11:04 am
Sorry the monster caught you so quickly. :0(
Saying no is tough!
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Aimee
Oct 10, 2008 at 11:06 am
I have such a hard time saying NO, but I am trying to get better. I bet the prize is a calendar to keep track of all those events we can’t say NO to.
Cathy McCaughan
Oct 10, 2008 at 1:02 pm
Soothe my soul? Umm, new shoes?
Kamber
Oct 10, 2008 at 1:48 pm
Some kind of yoga video or something like it.
Susanna
Oct 10, 2008 at 2:00 pm
My husband and I have agreed to a moratorium on volunteering for anything new until this baby is a few months old. I do feel bad when I say no, but then shortly afterward, when I see how much stuff I already have to do, I feel relieved.
I’m guessing that it will be some kind of book. Perhaps a soul food cookbook? ;)
Jen
Oct 10, 2008 at 7:02 pm
Aww, happy birthday to the kidlet!
ikkinlala
Oct 10, 2008 at 9:56 pm
When I think of things that feed my soul, the first thing that often comes to mind is music.
Jessi
Oct 11, 2008 at 5:30 am
I get the same way. Especially this time of year and I hate that because I love love love this time of year.
I am guessing a book to put things in perspective.
Lindley
Oct 11, 2008 at 7:54 am
Bath and body pampering products are my favorite way to escape for a few minutes- if only there was one more hour in the day!
CanCan (MomMostTraveled)
Oct 12, 2008 at 8:13 am
Is it a massage chair? That would be super awesome!
Kristen
Oct 12, 2008 at 12:03 pm
My husband and I are from different states (also different from the one in which we live now) and we’ve been driving back (traveling thousands of miles) for so many family gatherings and holidays over the years — so much so that the trips stress us out. We’ve finally said no to traveling back a couple of times this year and will finally have our first Thanksgiving at our own home. I’ll miss everyone (we’ll be missing my family’s get-together), but at the same time, I’m really quite relieved.
Noreen
Oct 12, 2008 at 10:07 pm
Create a Life That Tickles Your Soul-
i am trying to say ‘No” more
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Oct 20, 2008 at 11:02 am
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