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Knowing Now What You Didn’t Know Then…

by Kim on April 16th, 2006

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to to. Where’s there’s love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong. — Ella Fitzgerald.

I almost missed the above quote, as I was turning pages in the May issue of More Magazine. I’m glad I turned back to read it and contemplate. If I’d only known and understood this concept 20 years ago, when I began working, I could have saved myself a lot of self-hating, sleepless nights.

Mary Lou Quinlan, currently a judge on ABC’s American Inventor, wrote a poignant article about how we can use our work lessons teach our daughters, neices and other young women: The Career Advice We’d Most Like To Give Our Daughters So They Don’t Make The Same Mistakes We Did. It’s certainly a timely topic as Mother’s day approaches, but I would submit, that it’s just great advice.

Here are some of Ms. Quinlan’s thoughts:

  • I’d stop saying I’m sorry all the time to defuse problems
  • I’d shut down the doubtin voice that kept me from speaking my heart
  • I’d start taking chances sooner and asking for forgiveness later
  • I’d enjoy being a woman at work

And to those who are just starting out now — she says:

  • Take your responsibility seriously, but not yourself
  • Nurture your friendships
  • Trust your first impressions

Look in the mirror each night and ask whether you’ve done the best you could

Gosh, I wish someone had told me these things…so, when you get a minute, pick up a copy of More or visit their site to read the whole article…if not just to check out Meredith Vieira’s gorgeous dress on the cover.

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